You launched the meditation app. You rolled out the step challenge. You sent the email about the EAP, and then sent it again. And when you pulled the numbers at the end of the quarter, participation looked about the same as it did before you started.
If that sounds familiar, you're not alone, and you're not doing it wrong because you don't care. Most HR leaders I work with care a lot. The problem is that most wellness programs are built around what's easy to offer instead of what employees actually need. Here's how to flip that.
Why Most Wellness Programs Go Unused
Low participation usually gets read as an employee problem: people are too busy, not interested, or don't value their own well-being. In my experience, it's almost always a design problem.
A few patterns show up over and over:
The program solves a problem employees don't have. A yoga class doesn't help the person whose stress comes from an unclear workload and a manager who emails at 10pm.
Using it costs more than it gives. If attending a wellness session means falling further behind on real work, people will skip it. That's not apathy. That's math.
It isn't safe to use. If employees aren't sure whether asking for support will quietly count against them, they won't ask. Especially for anything mental-health related.
Leaders don't participate. When the people at the top never take the break, use the resource, or log off on time, everyone else gets the real message, no matter what the email said.
Start by Asking What's Actually Wearing People Down
Before choosing a single offering, find out what's really driving stress on your teams. Not in general. In your organization, right now.
That means asking better questions than "What wellness benefits would you like?" Most people will answer that with whatever they've seen elsewhere. Instead, try:
"What's the part of your job that drains you most?"
"What gets in the way of doing your best work?"
"If one thing changed about how we work, what would make the biggest difference?"
You'll often find the answers have less to do with perks and more to do with workload, communication, and leadership. That's useful information. It tells you where the program actually needs to focus.
Build Around the Work, Not Around It
The most effective wellness programs don't live off to the side of the job. They change how the job works.
That can look like:
Training managers to recognize early signs of burnout and have real conversations about workload
Setting clear norms around after-hours communication
Building recovery time into busy seasons instead of hoping people find it on their own
Making time for wellness during the workday, not on top of it
A lunch-and-learn can be a fine piece of this. It just can't be the whole thing. If the conditions causing burnout stay the same, no single offering will outrun them.
Make It Safe, Simple, and Visible
Even a well-designed program will sit unused if people don't trust it or can't find it.
Safe: Be explicit about confidentiality, especially for counseling or EAP resources. Say it more than once. Then make sure leaders back it up with how they respond when someone does speak up.
Simple: Every extra step is a reason not to bother. One clear place to find resources. One clear way to access them.
Visible: Leaders using the program openly does more for participation than any campaign. A manager who says "I'm blocking off Friday afternoon, I need it" gives everyone else permission to do the same.
Equip Your Leaders First
If I could give HR leaders one piece of advice, it would be this: invest in your managers before you invest in another perk.
Managers shape the day-to-day experience of work more than any policy does. They decide whether workloads are realistic, whether people feel safe being honest, and whether the wellness program is something people are encouraged to use or quietly expected to ignore. A manager who knows how to have a real conversation about capacity will prevent more burnout than most programs ever will.
And managers need support too. Many of them are running on empty while trying to hold their teams together. Training that helps them lead sustainably benefits them and everyone who reports to them.
Measure What Matters
Participation numbers tell you something, but not much. A better picture comes from tracking things like:
Turnover and retention, especially among strong performers
Sick days and unplanned time off
Engagement or pulse survey trends over time
What employees say in stay interviews and exit interviews
Check in regularly, adjust based on what you hear, and treat the program as something that grows with your organization rather than a one-time launch.
Where to Start
You don't have to rebuild everything at once. Start by understanding where your culture is strong and where burnout is quietly building. That gives you a clear place to focus, so your next wellness investment is one people will actually use.
That's exactly what the free People-First Culture Assessment is designed to do. In about five minutes, it scores your organization across the five pillars that predict whether a team burns out or builds something sustainable, and gives you practical next steps you can start on right away.
Get Your Free Culture Assessment → see where your organization stands and where to focus first.
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Jen Schwytzer, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker with more than 20 years of experience, a workplace wellness educator, and a keynote speaker. She helps people and organizations build wellness that holds up in real life, grounded in clinical expertise and lived experience, not theory.
